1. Neither just bid 4♥ especially if 2♥ was a constructive raise. If it could be weaker then try 4♦ 2. Your partner had a "if he breathes again he is in game" 2♥ everyone else is making a LR [well not me] with his hand and he seems to think he is holding ♠xxx ♥Qxx ♦xxxx ♣KJx