Honestly quitting bridge might be a good option, especially if you are elderly. It is a very slow and long process to get better, probably compounded by most peoples inefficient practices while trying to do so. Your story is pretty normal. Good luck to you. To clarify: I think it is often impossible for people to meet their goals when they start bridge too late. They simply underestimate how vast and difficult bridge is, and overestimate their own capacity to learn something like that at a more advanced age, especially if they are smart and successful people. It's sad that some people are never told this. OP, I think the biggest thing you can do is reassess your goals and see how reasonable they are. It is quite possible you are doing all the right things (playing a lot, studying a lot, reading a lot), but your goals are impossible to achieve. Assuming you do not want to lower your measures of success and improvement, maybe a new game/hobby is the right call.