Not so simple. I think there is a very popular, successful school of thought regarding the girls in Csaba's age range that suggests that they will be attracted to the guys who are jerks to them and otherwise don't treat them very nicely. This school also advocates treating interactions with women as if they do have their tongues hanging out for sex all the time. Because if, as you seem to imply, this is the goal of the men pursuing the women, then getting right to the point is the best way to maximize the potential for success. Many men find this approach to be "simple really." It's as simple as "keep out of the friends-only zone" and stay in the "potential relationship" zone. My understanding is that this becomes less and less true as women get older. I could easily be wrong, but I get the impression Csaba doesn't want to treat women badly, thus making him complicated as well as the women he's after. Anyway, just like everything in life, the more you practice, the better you get at stuff. 1. Practice interacting with women 2. Analyze the interaction. Any would've/could've/should'ves? 3. Practice more. 4. ???? 5. Profit. With that said, girls are still LOL to me.