Let me first say that I basically agree with you. Your experience at that club was the example of how bridge should not be played. But then I disagree with you on the following: Of course, I understand what you mean. If you usually don't ask, a sudden question gives UI to partner that you were thinking of bidding. In that case, asking and passing is clear UI. But: If you don't ask a question and then pass, it will give your partner UI that you were not interested in a bid. This UI is just as useful as the ask and pass UI. The solution to this problem is simple. Make sure that you know what their bidding means regardless of your hand. That way your questions will not carry UI. After all, you would ask with 0 points or 28 and with 8 cards in the suit bid or with a void. Obviously you shouldn't carry this too far. The above rule goes for bidding situations where you could reasonably be interested in getting into the auction. (There is no sense in asking what every bid in a 10 round relay sequence means.) In case you were wondering whether not asking can give UI think about the following example. Your left hand opponent deals, puts down the STOP card and opens 2♦ which is promptly alerted. Your partner waits for 10 seconds and passes. Do you seriously think that he was contemplating a bid? He could just as well have saved 10 seconds by passing immediately. On the other hand, imagine that your left hand opponent deals, puts down the STOP card and opens 2♦ which is promptly alerted. Your partner asks what it means (as usual) and hears that it was Multi. Now he thinks 10 seconds and passes. If you are in the habit of asking routinely, you will not have any UI. He can have a borderline pass or a hand that was not interested at all. Exactly what the STOP card procedure was meant for. Rik