Jlall Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 So. I met this girl form Estonia, Triinu, I saw 2 blondes and I asked htem to come to the club with me. One asked me to describe Estonia on a map, and somehow I knew it was near Latvia. Sure enough, we meet but don't hook up because I'm too drunk to realize whats happning. She finds me on BBO and we talk daily. She plans a visit to NY, but 3 days before she comes I try to kill myslef. She visits me in the hospital and is great. We talk afterwards, and it's aweosme. I plan a trip there but 2 weeks before I go, I decide I don't want a girlfriend and don't want to deal with all that *****, so I decide not to go. I think that I cannot deal with a relationship in general, let alone a long distance one. So. Howpatheric is this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjbrr Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 very pathetic. PS hi forums. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dicklont Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 Give up the booze man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helene_t Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 What Dick says. Sex is a lot healthier than alcohol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slothy Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 Not pathetic at all dood :) Just need to sort out what you want in life and go for it (easy to talk it, harder to walk it, i know :) ) Relationships are good by the way. its a matter of finding, or falling into, the right one :) (also, there is someone else to put the trash out at night when u forget :) ) Be Happy Justin Alex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hanoi5 Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 I'm gonna have to go with dicklont here. Stop the booze and try to keep it private in the forums, create a bogus account and use it for this kind of posts; you don't want the Estonian or any other girl to read that kind of stuff.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onoway Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 Dunno if it will help but read a book called Potatoes, not Prozac. Although it's mostly advertised as a book for other difficulties, the author supposedly has had an unusual level of success helping people who have a problem with alcohol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimG Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 I plan a trip there but 2 weeks before I go, I decide I don't want a girlfriend and don't want to deal with all that *****, so I decide not to go. What ***** would that be? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gerben42 Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 My suggestion is: No drinking for a while. Find out that life can be fun without alcohol too! Long distance relationships are not everyone's thing, and from NY to Tallinn is a LONG way... When have you last called her? If it's more than a week, call her after reading this, deciding if you want to go on or quit. Yes, I meant right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfay Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 Dude no offense but if you've found a beautiful girl who you like and who likes you, then you're an idiot for canceling this trip. You've got basically nothing to lose unless you're afraid spending some time with her will make one or the other realize that you don't really like each other... but like infinity to gain. This mentality about relationships is what *****ed everything up with Genevieve for me. Don't make that mistake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeh Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 'That *****' may be the best thing that can happen to you...... cutting back on the alcohol may be even better, especially since alcohol tends to feed depression, and, if that part about trying to kill yourself is true, maybe it's time to get some help there. The fact that she visited you in hospital says lots of good things about her. And you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
matmat Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 WTF are you scared of? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IdiotVig Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 You've never taken a flier before?... It's kind of the same thing, really. You make it sound like a low-percentage, high-variance play. So, you can either 1) go for it; chalk up the good result when it works and learn from it when it doesn't, or 2) sit on your heels and listen to us in the post-mortem. I know what my choice would be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karlson Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 Perhaps you're mostly trolling, but .... the thing that strikes me as the most insane is that you might seriously think that the forums, filled with bunch of people who only know you through bridge problems, might actually have good advice for the stuff you've posted recently. This is what your real friends are for, the ones who've hung out with you a ton and know when you're happiest, and when you're at your worst, ideally ones who have met the girl in question. There are always a million subtleties, and if you listen to advice from anyone who can't possibly be familiar with them, you're an idiot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 No advice from me this time. Pathetic? Yup. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jdonn Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 Can I have your ticket? Tell trinnu the best-hand god is coming. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackshoe Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 What Dick says. Sex is a lot healthier than alcohol. More fun, too. :unsure: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwery_hi Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 What Dick says. Sex is a lot healthier than alcohol. Cerebellum disagrees. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winstonm Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 It's not pathetic - simply self-centered. Get over yourself - you won't really be free until you grasp that you are only another brick in the wall. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Al_U_Card Posted June 22, 2009 Report Share Posted June 22, 2009 To thine own self be true. You got to where you are based on circumstances such as they were. If you can be happy (even moderately) with that then you are way ahead of the game. Go for it, as you see it, questioning (even drunk) is okay....second guessing is for others. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwery_hi Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 It's not pathetic - simply self-centered. Get over yourself - you won't really be free until you grasp that you are only another brick in the wall. hey! teacher!, leave 'em kids alone :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickf Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Can I have your ticket? Tell trinnu the best-hand god is coming. I had to read this twice to get what you meant - at first it seemed triinu was redundant. nickfsydney Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kenberg Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Of course I have no idea whether I should take your post at face value. If I have it right a girl presents herself to you and you are too drunk to accept. After this, she for some reason pursues you on BBO, then to NY, she finds that you have tried to kill yourself, and comes to sweetly visit you. Are you saying this is just your everyday life? Girls running after you, pulling off their clothes as they chase you down the street? I guess I lack the experience to provide advice to such a sex magnet, but I think that I would worry a bit. Have you seen Fatal Attraction? Also, again assuming I am to take this seriously, I regard the attempted suicide as somewhat more important than whether you do or do not get laid by this Estonian babe. But hey, what do I know? I have the uneasy feeling this is a joke and I am the one not getting it. ("it" being the joke. I am definitely not getting the Estonian babe.) Good luck, joke or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kenberg Posted June 24, 2009 Report Share Posted June 24, 2009 I have learned that I should take your note for real. Some advice: 1. Since we are not close, probably I don't know what I am talking about. 2. Lay off the heavy booze. 3. I will comment on the woman. I was sort of joking about the Fatal Attraction. But less dramatically, I would say be wary of a woman who is too willing to overlook things such as drunkenness and suicide attempts. Of course she might be able to see the inner beauty of your soul, but I recommend holding out for a woman who expects better of you. 4. See number 1. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jlall Posted June 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 24, 2009 I have learned that I should take your note for real. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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