kenberg Posted September 1, 2006 Report Share Posted September 1, 2006 There is a difference between being rude and offensive and playing on someones mind. I don't condone rudeness, and I am not rude at the table, nor do I point out my opponent's errors (I make enough of my own), but I do believe in making my life difficult for my opponent in every way that is legal and moral at the table. The problem with this (aside from the typo where you say "I do believe in making my life difficult...") is that there is apt to be wide disagreement about what is rude and what is "playing with someone's mind". Example: Some years ago I sat down at a table in a national pairs event. There were many kibitzers and I immediately recognized my rho from the many times his picture has been in the acbl bulletin. My lho, who I did not recognize, was listening to something (music, I suppose) through an earplug. There was a low level electronic buzz and I asked him to turn it off. He didn't understand what I wanted. I explained further (duh) and he got it. He turned it off. My rho then picked up his glass of water, took the ice cubes into his mouth, and began crunching on them. Yes, they got to me, I regret to say. My play of the next hand was embarrassing. Maybe you approve of this, maybe you don't, I can't tell from your post. You appear to say its up to the players to cope with this. That may well provide the excitement you are looking for. I was younger and trimmer then and I am pretty sure I could have handled the fat SOB on my right, but the guy on my left would have been a problem. I could bring friends. Or the governing organization could try to keep this from happening. That's my preference. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigpenz Posted September 1, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 1, 2006 My opinion is that Brad would have tried to make 4H 99 times out of 100 and that he would guess Zia's actual distribution well over half of the time. We have been regular partners for 6 years or so and I only remember him "giving up" as declarer when an obvious solution (for Brad at least) was present one other time. This was a lapse in concentration - maybe because he was tired, maybe because he was distracted, maybe because he was annoyed about something, maybe for no reason. It happens to everyone, even the very best players. What makes the best players the best is that it doesn't happen to them very often and, when they do stop to think, they have a good chance of making the right decision. Unfortunately Brad and I each had a few expensive lapses in concentration in that match. Eliminating any of these lapses would swung the match in our favor (we lost by 5 IMPs). Here's what happened at the table: Brad claimed down 1 and showed his hand. Michael Rosenberg and I (on the other side of the screen) looked at each other. We knew immediately what he had done. Brad's mom, Gail Greenberg (who was kibitzing me), also knew. I am sure Zia did too and waited for what he thought was a good time to needle Brad. Serious gamesmanship there by Zia. My opinion is that this is not a difficult hand for anyone who has studied the game seriously (as it is a textbook hand - perfect for Bridge Master Level 4). Fred GitelmanBridge Base Inc.www.bridgebase.com thanks for the input Fred....the vugraph commentators really didnt have any extra to add as they were suprised when one said GIB says 4!h should make. In a 120 board match I am sure there are many hands where one board besides this one could have swung the match the other way. I wasnt aware of the situation between ZIA and Moss and it could be that it had someting to do for the situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barmar Posted September 1, 2006 Report Share Posted September 1, 2006 If this were rubber bridge, I wouldn't expect anyone to have a problem with this. That form of the game is often considered "no holds barred", and gamesmanship is part of the game. But duplicate bridge is generally expected to be more proper. There's still room for emotion and enjoyment, but comments that are intended to disturb another player are out of line. If you're on friendly terms with an opponent, and you know that they won't take a light-hearted comment inappropriately, fine. But if there's a history of bad blood between Zia and Moss, he should know better than to play on this. Duplicate bridge is supposed to be about your play of the cards, not playing with heads. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rain Posted September 1, 2006 Report Share Posted September 1, 2006 I'm thinking there are other things one can do to be annoying, you know? -Don't shower for a couple weeks before tourney.-Alternately, douse yourself in the thickest perfume ever, especially if screenmate has known allergies(?)-Don't brush your teeth and breath on screenmate-Practise drumming your fingers in annoying patterns (soundlessly so it won't affect partner)-Grow your hair really long and keep twirling it Surely there's more. In the name of gamesmanship........good? bad? allowed? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoTired Posted September 1, 2006 Report Share Posted September 1, 2006 Classic psychological chess story: Before his 1908 game with Emmanuel Lasker, Aron Nimzovich approached the tournament director, pleading with him to insist that Lasker refrain from smoking cigars during their game. [Nimzovich had weak lungs and smoke made him ill. He eventually died of pneumonia. Lasker was known to be fond of smelly cigars.] The tournament director requests Lasker's compliance and Lasker agrees. The game begins and shortly thereafter Lasker removes a cigar from his pocket and places it on the table. After a few minutes Nimzovich again approaches the tournament director exclaiming, "See! Look what he's doing!" The tournament director notices that Lasker's cigar is just sitting on the table and says to Nimzovich: "What's the problem? Lasker is not smoking." Nimzovich: "Yes, but he is threatening to smoke, and any fool knows that the threat is more powerful than the execution!" Lasker won. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigpenz Posted September 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 2, 2006 Classic psychological chess story: Before his 1908 game with Emmanuel Lasker, Aron Nimzovich approached the tournament director, pleading with him to insist that Lasker refrain from smoking cigars during their game. [Nimzovich had weak lungs and smoke made him ill. He eventually died of pneumonia. Lasker was known to be fond of smelly cigars.] The tournament director requests Lasker's compliance and Lasker agrees. The game begins and shortly thereafter Lasker removes a cigar from his pocket and places it on the table. After a few minutes Nimzovich again approaches the tournament director exclaiming, "See! Look what he's doing!" The tournament director notices that Lasker's cigar is just sitting on the table and says to Nimzovich: "What's the problem? Lasker is not smoking." Nimzovich: "Yes, but he is threatening to smoke, and any fool knows that the threat is more powerful than the execution!" Lasker won. i dont know the situation but I have always thought that Zia is supposed to be the gertleman of bridge.....Moss I dont know....so in some respects maybe Zia was right for what he was doing in that he felt that Moss deserved it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Codo Posted September 2, 2006 Report Share Posted September 2, 2006 i dont know the situation but I have always thought that Zia is supposed to be the gertleman of bridge.....Moss I dont know....so in some respects maybe Zia was right for what he was doing in that he felt that Moss deserved it. And maybe we just put too much guesses into a situation where noone of us had been in?Fred had been there and he knows the two guys from the other screen side. So we should hold on to the facts he told us. To make suspicions about who was guilty in this affair is not real sportsmanship ihmo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fred Posted September 2, 2006 Report Share Posted September 2, 2006 I have been Zia's partner in one week-long tournament and I have played many many boards against him. In my experience he is almost always worthy of the reputation that pigpenz suggests he has as being "the gentleman of bridge" - he is almost always charming, polite, and fun at the table. All this incident proves is that Zia, like just about everyone else (including me), is capable of being rude at the table. What happened was not that big a deal in my view and, as far as I could tell, Zia's comment did not have an impact on Brad's subseqent play. Every player at Brad's level has to be capable of rising above personal or bridge adversity at the table and Brad (who has a very thick skin) tends to excel in this area. I found Zia's actions in this case to be distasteful, but please don't read something into my post that wasn't there. He certainly is not a monster and his colorful personality, dedication, and incredible talent as a player have certainly been good for bridge. Fred GitelmanBridge Base Inc.www.bridgebase.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kenberg Posted September 2, 2006 Report Share Posted September 2, 2006 Fred, As Pig suggests, you were there, you know the people, your assessment is good enough for me. With at least three of the matches, including yours, being decided on the last board I can well imagine many players having nightmares about what they might have done differently but I seriously doubt any player would have collapsed at the table because an opponent noted that he could have made the contract. My most frequent play on BBO is in the ACBL tourneys. Often, waiting for the round to change, there is some interesting feature of the boards that I would like to discuss. Of course I do not, at least unless I already know the players, but it's sort of a shame. Not every comment is a gloat, and I would far prefer a little honest discussion to the everpresent wp, gt, etc when there was absolutely nothing well done or good about the try. It would be of great interest to discuss some of the swing boards from the matches. Some of these were due to different methods, some due to decisions that could have gone either way, some seemed, to me, to truly be errors. The commentators were not by any means always right in their analysis nor in their predictions about how the play would go. I'm enthusiastically fine with this and in fact found it a great kick to see if I could out-analyse or out-predict them. Sometimes I believe I did. Not often. It was really one hell of a show. One other point. It is often said that at the top level everything depends on the bidding because all the top players handle the cards well. No doubt most of the swings were from the bidding, but a significant number turned on the play. Ken Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigpenz Posted September 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 2, 2006 I watched almost all of the 120 board final and there were so many boards that could have changed the final result either way. The last hand for one was an interesting one, if a diamond was led instead of a club i Believe 6♥x would have pushed with 5♠ making at the other table and Freds team would be on top. another hand where Garner holding 8♥ did not pre empt and his partner ducked the q♥ in at around trick 9 letting 3♠ make. the story goes on and on but the great thing about it was that we were able to watch it live on VuGraph and not have to read select tidbits of it in bridge world......so Kudos to Fred, Uday, and those who run Bridge Base for making this possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoTired Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 It is also possible that Zia made the comment without thinking how it was recieved. After all, Zia was tired, too. It is not just our logic centers that degrade with fatigue, so do our social graces and internal warning voices. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartA Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 An "expert" like me would be able to make 4H with the way Zia defended (2 black Aces and then spade). With a club continuation at trick 3, I would probably go down. BTW, I "never claim down 1" for a game contract... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kenberg Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 It is also possible that Zia made the comment without thinking how it was recieved. After all, Zia was tired, too. It is not just our logic centers that degrade with fatigue, so do our social graces and internal warning voices. This, imo, is a very, very good point. If it is a problem at all, and it very well may not be a problem for anyone, it's for the principals to work out. Not taking offense when none was intended can greatly simplify life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flame Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 There could be another angle to look at this.My wife and i had once a talk about what is the right thing to do when you see a friend with an open fly in his paints. Most ppl just dont do anything but my wife is pround of being the one to tell the guy, yes its imberessing but she say he would like to know.I think there are some similarity here, everyone knew but decided to say nothing while zia was the one to tell the guy.I know its not the same, but reading fred post about how he and rosenberg where smiling to each other on the other side just remind me of the other situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigpenz Posted September 5, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 then again we keep acting like everyone at the table is wearing tuxedoes and wearing white gloves :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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