I play in England and I am interested in what you were saying about conduct, as a novice player it does vary. I have started to play in clubs as I do not have a regular partner and needed more experience. The best club I have played at is one that my teacher introduced me to as they have gone out of their way to help a beginner. I enjoy playing bridge and do not mind coming last if I have a good game but it cannot be enjoable to these people who behave as you describe. they seem to have lost the plot. :)