What. The. *****. Is. Happening. (srr for the f word but its essential here) People are just trying to give you advises, possum. I see nothing wrong with jilly's comments. Can you find me a sentence that attacked and bullied you? I'm very, very new to this forum, but you've already given me that you are overrracting to every single comment about you. Maybe you should chill out a bit, and reread the comments that, in your opinion, are targeting your person, not your playing. Maybe you will find out that they are just giving their opinion/experience. Hey, you don't need to act that aggresive to them. If they give you an advice that you won't accept, you can say something like: Thanks for your advice, but I don't think it will work. I'll keep playing with my own convention/style for now. That sounds a lot better.