As a TD myself, I know how important it is to set rules that you plan to enforce. Enforcement should apply to all players regardless of status (e.g. yellow, star, expert, beginner, personal friend, etc.) When a player asks his/her opponents to comply with the rules and they refuse to do so, then the TD has no other alternative than to come to the table ande give offending player (s) an opportunity to comply. If they still refuse, then THEY should be removed, not the player that requested compliance. The notion that a TD of a "private club" can bend his/her own rules doesn't make sense. Rules are rules to be followed by all members of the tourney. Obviously, not all players follow the rules. Usually this doesn't matter unless their opponents request them to. Then all bets are off and compliance should be mandatory.