Hi Anders Most of the responses here have the tone of "bridge is hard; learn from your numerous mistakes, and you will get better", which, although I agree with the basic content, might not be addressing your problem. And I agree with you -- ostensibly players who are not "expert" in some manner get a whole lot more discouragement than encouragement. As humans, I've noticed that our (faulty) tendency is to blame or partners in bridge, before considering that we ourselves have made a mistake, or even most likely, the opponents' usually great (or catastrophic) play is the primary factor in influencing the results. I play in a club with individual tournaments, and the number of times I've been told to "stop playing bridge" is outrageous. Are there really still places in the world where people are banned from playing a leisurely game just because an angry troll has decided that they're too stupid to be allowed (of course there are, but it's hard to say if anyone really is truly happy in those places)? When partner makes a mistake it is not sufficient evidence to conclude that they need to leave and not return until they have learned the game. How long would that even take anyway?! :P Also consider Anders that there is a popular bridge instructor who uses the free daylong for instruction. He's quite good so I would imagine that hundreds if not thousands of people are playing with "extra knowledge and insight", not because they intend to cheat, but because it doesn't count and the "play along" exercise is tremendously helpful in learning. So, for sake of argument, I agree that it would be good to have other means of comparing oneself with others who are approximately around the same level to try and measure the improvement in some manner. We all know that the Masterpoints system (BBO or ABCL or otherwise) doesn't quite capture current ability, and rewards disproportionately players who play more often. With enough money one can get the most skilled partners to help them generate as many masterpoints as they would like. Thanks for reading Jeff