Hi, i agree with previous poster (nekthen) - "Develop a thicker skin". Make your skin as think as an elephant's ;) Just the other evening i was invited to play in a team match (with true, real and kind experts), and you not going to believe this :D -> my partner with no profile, no name, no skill level whatsoever and with only 3 logins (and i'm not going to mention the country :o ) , shouted at me after jumping unnecessarily to 7NT : "idiot" . Well, i just calmly wrote this @ the table: "Bridge players are suppose to be intelligent people.. Being rude!? - Not so intelligent imho.." Needless to say, he/she just immediatly left BBO ;) and we continued a good game in peace :D