>;) I feel saddened and angry that there is a minority of people out there trying to spoil the fun for the majority of players having fun and making friends from all over the world on this premier bridge site. I have a set of informal "rules" that I try to follow when visiting BBO or any forum I if I may I will share them with you. BBO Code of Conduct "Treat Others As You Want To Be Treated" 1. Try to be kind, courteous, polite and friendly: Say hi when someone enters the room Say well done or good try after a hand is played Don't use foul language or tell off-colour jokes at the table Say goodnight when leaving a room and try to wait at least 10 seconds for others to respond (I call this the 10-second rule) Don't just leave a table you are playing at in mid-hand, unless it's an emergency If you sit when someone's partner crashes, and they return in short order, perhaps you could stand up again as soon as it seems proper (either immediately or the end of the hand) When you enter a game as a fourth, try not to sit and immediately demand to clear score. At least say hi, and perhaps ask first. When sitting as dummy do not "tell" partner to claim, s/he may not have seen the winning line just yet -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 2. Try to be helpful and patient: If someone crashes that has been an obvious part of your game for a while give them at least a few minutes to get back If a new player asks for help, help if you can or direct them to a yellow host. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 3. Always play as if people are more important than score: One team may get a streak of better cards, so be gracious and do not seek to humiliate the opposition. If the score is quite one-sided, perhaps use the level of approximately 3000 points and offer to clear the score for them. If you happen to be on the 'bad' side of the streak, be cheerful for the good cards your opps are getting. Your turn will come. If the opposition says 'oops' after an obvious mis-click be gracious about offering an undo. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 4. Try to be modest in your approach: Try not to embarrass your partner by publicly criticizing them Do not brag about what a wonderful player you are, actions speak much louder -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 5. Be restrained in you comments when Kibbitzing Wait for an appropriate moment before saying hello when entering a table as a Kibber, possibly at the beginning of the next deal. Remember it is much easier to play bridge when seeing all 4 hands. Keep comments to the Kibbers, unless invited by the players to comment . -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 6. Above all, HAVE FUN: Enjoy the people you are playing with and enjoy your game Try to remember that this is a game. People come to bridge to enjoy themselves, they want to relax and have fun -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- These are the rules I try to follow, both in life and when playing bridge. Feel free to use any or all in any way shape or form on the BBO site ... I feel that most on BBO follow these anyway