:) It helps others if your profile is friendly and matches your skill level - i.e. Novice or Beginner or Intermediate, we all started somewhere. The BIL forum is for beginners and Intermediates, you should look for tables which show +anchat+ +slow+ in the description, which is used to invite discussions. Once you find the table, send a private message to the host showing interest in joining.I also found it useful to mark as friends others who matched my skill level. BTW, you should also feel free to start your own table and invite others inside BIL or in the Relaxed Bridge forum. The start table option is located in the main menu inside the box titled "play or Watch Bridge". FOR BIL , the option for starting a new table: 1st select > List all Tables 2nd select > All Public and Private Clubs 3rd select > All Public Clubs 4th select > "Start table" on row showing manager " BILManager - BILlies Retreat "