If partner HAD alerted the 2NT bid and then went on to bid 3NT.... I would have no problem with the advancer now bidding 4S. But the failure to alert becomes UI and it must be determined IF there were any logical alternatives per law 16B. If you are trying to bid Leb and your partner now refuses the transfer and instead bids 3NT, your partner should have a very strong hand, H stoppers, doubleton or even stiff S and maybe a running minor saying you can make 3NT with my hand partner. Can you pass partner's 3NT? I would consider it as an option vs bidding 4S and finding my partner with xx in S. By bidding 3NT when I have asked my partner to bid 3C, my partner has just shown a totally different type of hand that just a regular t/o double. I don't think 4S can be bid now.