Here's the scenario. You have a messy break-up with your now ex-girlfriend and decide you don't want to see her again, and it's quite mutual. You're looking forward to going to a party this weekend. Unfortunately, the party is being hosted by a mutual friend, and you've now discovered that she's going as well. Do you: a) Cry off. Unfortunately, the mutual friend will know exactly why. b) Other.... please specify. You were really looking forward to going.....