I was just ready to give up this whole project, when I came across these forums. Hopefully, this is the correct one in which to post my dilemma (sic). I have not played bridge since '92. Before that I became an LM quite quickly, played in regional and national events. Now, even though I belonged to OK since 94 and BBO for years, never played, just kibitzed on occasion. I am now trying to return and am frustrated. Need to brush up (to put it mildly) on bidding and play; however, the radom players with whom I am paired, usually play only the most basic system and I cannot get a chance to brush up on 2/1 or conventions---I forget alot of things and need practice. I have been playing with GIB 'cause he plays 2/1; but would really like to move along to real play. I am ready to give up the whole thing here on BBO--OK's no better. Perhaps if players were more honest about how they rated themselves, that would be a big step. I have played with "advanced" and "expers" that only played Stayman. I don't think I am too picky--if anyone has a suggestion or critical comment, please let me know. Thanks for listening.